How to Work Through Depression While Raising Kids

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Raising kids is one of the most joyous experiences in life, but it can also be stressful and overwhelming.

Those feelings can be amplified for parents with depression, a condition that can make even the smallest task seem impossible.

But, with some coping mechanisms and support, it is possible to work through depression and raise happy, healthy kids.

Here are some tips to work through depression while raising kids.

Be Kind to Yourself

As a parent with depression, it's easy to feel guilty about not being able to do everything you think you should be doing.

Take the time to recognize that you are doing your best and allow yourself to have some "off" days.

Ask for Help

There's no shame in asking for help when you need it.

Find someone you can rely on – whether that's a friend, family member, or therapist – to talk to, share your feelings, and help ease some of the burdens of parenting.

Take Care of Your Physical Health

Exercise, healthy eating, and proper sleep are vital components of mental and physical health. Regular exercise, including walks or runs with your children, can help to lift your mood and energy levels.

  • Exercise regularly
  • Eat a healthy, balanced diet
  • Get an adequate amount of sleep every night
  • Take short breaks throughout the day to relax and recuperate
  • Incorporate activities like yoga or meditation into your daily routine
  • Spend time outside in nature for fresh air and exercise
  • Drink plenty of water
  • Avoid drugs, alcohol, and caffeine

Schedule "Me Time"

Even if it's just a few quiet minutes to yourself each day, make sure to carve out time for self-care. Do something that makes you feel happy and relaxed – whether that's reading, taking a bath, or practicing yoga. Some other things you can do are:

  • Take breaks throughout the day to relax and recharge
  • Practice mindfulness or meditation techniques
  • Spend time with family and friends
  • Connect with a support system of other people going through similar experiences
  • Seek out activities that bring joy and relaxation, like art classes, music lessons, or outdoor hikes
  • Pick up a new hobby like cooking or photography
  • Make time for yourself by doing something you enjoy every day, such as yoga or reading a book
  • Set realistic goals for yourself each day and try to stick to them
  • Get enough rest – make sure you're getting at least 8 hours of sleep every night 

Be Honest with Your Children 

It's okay to share age-appropriate facts about your mental health with your kids if you feel comfortable.

Children are resilient and can be incredibly understanding and loving.

Set Realistic Expectations

Don't set unrealistic goals for yourself as a parent.

Remember that your mental health is a priority, and sometimes that means saying "no" to activities or commitments that don't serve you or your family.

Take Breaks When Needed

It's crucial to allow yourself some time off when you need it – whether that's a short nap or time to work on a hobby or taking some time away to relax.

FAQs About Raising Kids with Depression

Raising a child with depression can bring up many questions and concerns.

Here are some frequently asked questions that parents may have about raising kids with depression.

What should I do if I suspect my child is struggling with depression?

It's important to seek professional help if you suspect your child is struggling with depression. Talk to a doctor, mental health professional, or school counselor to get a proper diagnosis and treatment plan.

Will my child's depression go away on its own?

It's possible for depression to go away on its own, but it's more likely with proper treatment. Treatment can include therapy, medication, or a combination of both depending on the severity of the depression.

How can I support my child with depression?

Some ways to support your child with depression include providing emotional support, helping them to access mental health resources, encouraging healthy habits like exercise and healthy eating, and being patient and understanding.

Can I talk to my child about their depression?

Yes, it's important to have open and honest communication with your child about their depression. Try to listen without judgment and offer support if they want to talk.

Will my child's depression affect their academic performance?

It's possible that depression can affect academic performance.

Talk to your child's school counselor or teacher to find ways to support your child and ensure that they are receiving the help they need to succeed.

Can depression be inherited?

Depression can have a genetic component, but it's not always the case.

Other factors, such as environmental and social triggers, can also contribute to depression.

How can I prioritize my own mental health while raising a child with depression?

Prioritizing self-care is crucial for parents raising kids with depression.

This can include seeking support from friends and family, attending support groups or therapy, finding time to engage in hobbies, and practicing self-compassion.

What resources are available for parents raising kids with depression?

Resources for parents raising kids with depression can include mental health professionals, support groups, online forums, community groups, and books on parenting and mental health.

It's important to research and connects with resources that meet your family's specific needs.


The information provided in this blog post is for educational and informational purposes only.

It is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

If you suspect that your child is struggling with depression or any other mental health condition, we strongly recommend that you seek the advice and guidance of a mental health professional.

Raising a child with depression can be challenging, and it's important to have a qualified expert to help guide you through the process.

While this blog post provides some general tips and advice for parents raising kids with depression, it's important to understand that every situation is unique.

What works for one family may not work for another.

Again, we strongly recommend seeking the help of a mental health professional who can evaluate your child's specific needs and develop a personalized treatment plan.

Remember, there is no shame in seeking help, and there are many qualified professionals who specialize in working with children and families dealing with depression.


Raising kids is hard work, and it's even harder with depression, but it's essential to remember that you're not alone.

It's okay to reach out, ask for help when needed, and seek out the support you need to work through depression while raising your children.

With these tips and some determination, you can find joy, fulfillment, and happiness in your parenting journey.

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