How to Raise Kids to Make Good Decisions

How to Raise Kids to Make Good Decisions

Making good decisions is one of the most important skills that a person can have.

It's especially important for kids, who are just starting to learn about the world and how to navigate it.

As a parent, it's your job to help your child make good decisions. But how do you go about doing that?

Raising kids can be tough, but there is support for parents in this blog post to help. Let's discuss a few tips on how to raise kids to make good decisions!

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Tip #1 - Be a Good Role Model

As a parent, one of the most important things you can do is teach your children how to make good decisions. But where do you start?

A good place to begin is by setting a good example yourself.

After all, children pay close attention to what their parents do and often imitate their behavior.

If you want your kids to learn how to make responsible choices, you need to show them what that looks like in action.

Model the behavior you want to see in them. Be honest and respectful in your own interactions with others.

Explain your thought process out loud when making decisions, so they can hear your logic and reasoning.

And most importantly, follow through on the promises you make to them. If you act like someone who can be trusted and relied upon, your children are more likely to learn those same values.

So the next time you're wondering how to raise kids who make good decisions, just remember: it starts with you. 

Tip #2 - Encourage Them to Think for Themselves

It is important for children to learn how to think for themselves.

This skill will help them throughout their lives, in both small and large decisions.

There are many benefits to encouraging children to think for themselves.

For one, it helps them to develop critical thinking skills.

They learn how to weigh pros and cons, look at all sides of an issue, and come to their own conclusions.

Additionally, it allows them to practice self-reflection and introspection.

They learn to listen to their own inner voice and to trust their own instincts. And finally, it builds confidence.

When children know that they can make good decisions for themselves, they feel empowered and capable.

So next time you are faced with a decision, big or small, take a moment to encourage your child to think for themselves. It just might be the best decision you ever make.

Tip #3 - Help Them Weigh Their Options

It's human nature to want our kids to make good decisions. We want them to choose the right friends, the right school, and the right career.

But sometimes it feels like they're not even listening to us, let alone taking our advice. The thing is, we can't control their every decision. What we can do is help them learn how to weigh their options and make good decisions for themselves.

One way to do this is to encourage them to think about the consequences of their choices.

  • What will happen if they make this choice?
  • What are the risks and rewards?
  • Will it lead them closer to or further from their goals?

Asking these questions can help them see that some choices are riskier than others and that some have greater potential rewards.

We can also help them by modeling good decision-making ourselves.

When we face a decision, we can talk through our thought process with them.

This helps them see that there's more to making a good choice than just following our gut instinct.

It takes time and effort to consider all the options and weigh the pros and cons, but it's worth it when we make a decision we feel good about.

Help your kids learn to make good decisions by teaching them how to weigh their options.

Show them that you're thinking about your own choices, and encourage them to be thoughtful about theirs.

With practice, they'll get better and better at making decisions that are right for them. And who knows? They might even start taking your advice once in a while.

Tip #4 - Teach Them How to Handle Consequences

One of the most important things you can do when raising children is to teach them how to make good decisions.

Part of this process is helping them to understand that every choice they make has consequences.

This can be a difficult concept for kids to grasp, but it's important for them to understand that there are natural consequences as well as ones that we impose.

If a child doesn't brush their teeth, they may get cavities.

Or if they don't clean up their toys, they may not be able to play with them the next day.

By teaching kids about the implications of their choices, you can help them to develop good decision-making skills that will serve them well throughout their lives.

Tip #5 - Encourage Them to Seek Out Advice

It is important to encourage your children to seek out advice when making decisions.

This is because it helps them to develop a sense of responsibility and to learn how to make thoughtful decisions.

It also allows them to consider various viewpoints and to get input from people who have more experience than they do.

When you encourage your children to seek out advice, you are helping them to develop critical thinking skills that will serve them well throughout their lives.


This content is meant to be used for informational purposes only. If you need professional medical advice please seek it out from a licensed professional.


Making good decisions is an important life skill that all children need to learn.

You can help your kids to develop this skill by teaching them how to weigh their options, handle consequences, and seek out advice. If you need parenting support or counseling, you can always contact Overcomers Counseling for more information. 

With practice, they'll get better and better at making decisions that are right for them. And who knows?

They might even start taking your advice once in a while.

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