How to Raise a Well-Behaved Child

How to Raise a Well-Behaved Child

Raising a well-behaved child can be a challenging, yet important task to take on.

Any parent wants their kid to be well-adjusted, and able to communicate well to make healthy relationships.

While there is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question, there are certain things that all parents can do to help their children develop into well-behaved adults.

Below are some essential things to keep in mind.  If you need more parenting counseling information, Overcomers Counseling is here to help. 

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Be Consistent With Your Rules and Expectations

One of the most important things you can do as a parent is to be consistent with your rules and expectations.

If you tell your child that they need to be in bed by 10 PM on weekdays but then let them stay up until midnight on Fridays, they're going to get confused.

It's important to be consistent so that your child knows what is expected of them at all times. 

Encourage Good Behavior With Rewards

Another great way to help your child become well-behaved is to encourage good behavior with rewards.

This could be something as simple as letting them choose what we're having for dinner if they clean up their room without being asked or taking them out for ice cream if they get all A's on their report card.

Positive reinforcement like this will let your child know that their good behavior is appreciated and will help them want to continue behaving positively.

Set Firm Limits on Bad Behavior

It's important to set firm limits on bad behavior.

If your child does something that you don't approve of, such as hitting their sibling or talking back to you, it's important to immediately correct the behavior and let them know that it's not acceptable.

By doing this, you'll help your child understand what is and isn't acceptable behavior and will ultimately prevent them from engaging in bad behavior in the future. 

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the best way to discipline my child?

There is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question, as the best way to discipline your child will depend on their age, temperament, and the severity of their misbehavior. However, some general principles can be applied to most situations. 

For example, it is important to be consistent with your disciplinary actions, as children thrive on predictability and routine. Additionally, it is important to use positive reinforcement whenever possible, as this will encourage your child to repeat the desired behavior.

Finally, it is important to avoid physical punishment, as this can lead to negative outcomes such as aggression and resentment.

How do I get my child to listen to me?

It is important to remember that children are not always going to want to listen to what you have to say. However, there are some things you can do to encourage them to do so.

For example, you can try using eye contact and facial expressions when you speak to them, as this will help them to pay attention. Additionally, you can try speaking in a calm and firm voice, as this will convey the importance of what you are saying. 

Finally, you can try offering rewards for good listening behavior, such as praise or privileges.

How do I get my child to obey the rules?

Again, there is no one-size-fits-all answer here, as each child is different. However, some tips that may be helpful include setting clear and consistent rules, providing explanations for why the rules are in place, and offering positive reinforcement when your child obeys the rules.

Additionally, it is important to avoid punishing your child every time they break a rule, as this can lead to resentment and further rule-breaking behavior.

What should I do if my child has a tantrum?

Tantrums are a normal part of childhood development and usually occur when children are tired or frustrated. However, there are some things you can do to help minimize tantrums. For example, you can try redirecting your child's attention to something else before they reach the point of no return. 

Additionally, you can try remaining calm during the tantrum, as this will model appropriate behavior for your child. Finally, you should avoid giving in to your child's demands during a tantrum, as this will only reinforce the behavior.

My child is hitting/biting/kicking other children. What should I do?

If your child is exhibiting aggressive behavior towards others, it is important to take action immediately to prevent further problems down the road. 

Some things you can do include teaching your child appropriate ways to express their emotions (such as using words instead of hitting), modeling nonviolent conflict resolution yourself (such as walking away from an argument), and providing positive reinforcement when your child uses appropriate behavior (such as praise or privileges). 

Additionally, it is important to avoid reacting angrily yourself if your child hits/bites/kicks another person, as this can lead to further aggression. 

Overcomers Counseling is Here to Help

At Overcomers Counseling, we understand the importance of teaching children discipline and self-regulation. 

Our team of experienced counselors is trained to work with children and their families to help them establish healthy discipline strategies that can be used to promote positive behaviors. 

If you're looking for help navigating your child's behavior, please don't hesitate to reach out. We're here to help!

Contact us today to learn more about our services and how we can partner with you on the journey.


Raising a well-behaved child takes effort and patience but it is possible if you follow some basic guidelines.

Be consistent with your rules and expectations, encourage good behavior with rewards, and set firm limits on bad behavior when it does occur.

By doing these things, you'll help your child develop into a well-rounded individual who knows how to behave appropriately in any situation.

Overcomers Counseling provides parenting counseling, so if you need more information, please do not hesitate to reach out. 

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