Many older children experience love in their teenage years and get into romantic relationships.
However, the reality is that a large percentage of teenagers don't know what a healthy relationship truly entails and might find themselves in abusive, unhealthy ones.
Unhealthy relationships can affect your teen's mental well-being, physical health, education, and social life.
Thus, as a parent, it is your duty to protect your teen from unhealthy romantic relationships.
To begin with, you can identify the signs your teen is in an unhealthy romantic relationship.
Some indicators could be your teen developing a sudden behavioral change, losing interest in favorite activities, or having unexplainable injuries.
When you notice these signs, take immediate action.
For your next step, you can have a gentle conversation with your teen.
In a soft and calm tone, discuss the signs you've noticed with your teen and express your concern for them.
If your teen decides to open up to you, ensure to listen without interrupting, preaching, blaming, or judging.
Furthermore, you can educate your adult child on what to expect in a healthy romantic relationship.
Often, teens are unaware of the toxicity of their romantic relationships.
Parents can support their adult children by teaching them the fundamental values to cultivate and expect in a relationship, so they know the right time to leave or stay.
Consider this overview to learn practical ways to protect your teen from unhealthy romantic relationships:
It is important to be observant of your teen, especially when you notice something off about them after getting into a relationship.
The signs could come in various forms, affecting their behavioral pattern, academic performance, mental well-being, or even physical health.
You need to be observant and on the lookout for these signs to protect your teen from unhealthy romantic relationships.
One of the signs could be unexplained injuries on your teen's body.
If you notice scars or bruising, immediately ask your teen questions and request a detailed answer.
Ensure you double-check their explanation, as it is common for teens to tolerate abuse because of fear, embarrassment, or to protect their partner.
Also, a sudden change in your teen's behaviors and habits could result from their experience in unhealthy romantic relationships.
You can look out for behavioral changes such as a change in dress sense, giving up on dreams, low body confidence, constantly checking in, or unnecessarily being apologetic.
While some teens find love in healthy romantic relationships, others can be unlucky.
As a parent, it is essential to pay attention to your teen's habits, lifestyle, and overall well-being when they get into a romantic relationship to eliminate the possibility of them being in an unhealthy one.
When you notice signs that your teen is in an unhealthy relationship, it is essential to stay calm and avoid taking matters into your hand.
Your teen may be enduring other things you don't know about, and you want to avoid scaring or judging them.
The best way to protect your teen from unhealthy romantic relationships is to have a calm conversation with them.
You can start by calmly discussing the signs you've noticed and your concern for them.
Ensure you use a gentle tone, reassuring body language, and a calm facial expression during your conversation to encourage your teen to talk openly without worry or fear.
Also, listen carefully and provide steady support when your teen opens up to you.
It can be difficult for your child to discuss, so it's best you don't force the conversation, blame, preach or throw a fit.
Instead, show sympathy and be supportive of their situation.
Similarly, you can talk about your own past experiences in an unhealthy romantic relationship(if any) to help them know you understand them and that they are not alone.
It's easier for teens with a healthy communication habit with parents to voice out abuse, deal with unhealthy romantic relationships and recover from traumatic experiences.
Often, teens have no knowledge of what a healthy romantic relationship constitutes.
Although they may get a lot of information from the internet, friends, or even partners about romantic relationships, the information may be insufficient.
While every relationship works differently, there are basic characteristics every healthy relationship should have.
To protect your teen from unhealthy romantic relationships, teach them what to expect in a healthy one.
For one, you can teach your teen the importance of healthy communication in romantic relationships.
Teach them that healthy communication entails being able to share feelings, resolve conflicts peacefully, and validate emotions and feelings without judgment.
Similarly, mutual respect is a necessity among couples, young or old.
Teach your child to expect respect and give out respect to their partner.
They should respect their partner's time, opinion, personal space, goals, privacy and self, and vice-versa.
While it can be tempting to jump into action to protect your teen from unhealthy romantic relationships, it is essential to let your adult child make their own decision.
Unhealthy relationships can be very complex, and the best way you can help is to support and plan the next step together.
You shouldn't force your child to break up as you might just be mimicking the controlling habit of their toxic partner.
Instead, you want to take it slow and let them talk about our they feel.
Your teen may be going through some kind of loyalty or trauma bonding with their partner.
They may also be manipulated, controlled, and scared. It's important to understand your teens' situation before making plans.
Depending on their situation, you can then offer your teen options.
You can suggest that your teen leaves the relationship [create a safety plan for them to fall back on], talk to a school counselor, or contacts the national domestic violence hotline if they are being abused.
It can be difficult for your child to make a decision; that's why it's essential to work through the benefits with them and let them understand the disadvantages of staying in an unhealthy relationship.
As a parent, it's best to maintain a calm approach and be supportive while guiding your teen on the right steps to take.
Children gain their first exposure to relationships from their parents.
They observe and pay attention to their parent's personality traits and communication styles and may even pick up some of their values and habits.
Thus, you can protect your teen from unhealthy romantic relationships by being a good parent.
Through good parenting, your child can naturally pick up healthy habits like respect, empathy, care, love, kindness, grace, forgiveness, tolerance, and honesty.
Likewise, building your child's self-confidence, positive self-image, social skills, communication skills, conflict resolution skills, accountability, and encouraging them to focus on their strengths and goals will enable them to grow into better adults and romantic partners.
In addition, it becomes easier for your adult child to ask you for advice or open up about their toxic relationship if you are a reliable and trustworthy parent.
Endeavor to create a loving and friendly bond with your child to earn their trust and respect.
Unhealthy romantic relationships can negatively affect your teen's mental growth, self-image, confidence, drive, emotional and physical health, and mental well-being.
Thus, as a parent, it is crucial to protect your teen from unhealthy romantic relationships and help them learn to develop healthier ones in the future.
You can support your adult child by noting signs of unhealthy relationships, conversing with them, teaching them about healthy relationships, planning the next step together, and being a good parent.
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