Why Do I Get Anxiety When I Eat?

Anxiety and eating behaviors are intrinsically intertwined, with each having the potential to significantly impact the other...

Anxiety
March 21, 2025

Anxiety and eating behaviors are intrinsically intertwined, with each having the potential to significantly impact the other.

For many people, periods of stress or anxiety can trigger changes in eating habits, leading to a cycle that can be challenging to break. Imagine this scenario: You've had a stressful day at work, filled with deadlines and high-pressure decisions.

When you finally get home, you find yourself reaching for a bag of chips or a tub of ice cream, even though you're not physically hungry.

This act of seeking comfort in food is a common response to anxiety, but it can also lead to a host of other issues, including an unhealthy relationship with food.

Understanding the connection between anxiety and eating is the first step towards breaking this cycle and developing healthier coping mechanisms.

The Impact of Anxiety on Eating Habits

When an individual is experiencing anxiety, the body often enters a state of high alert, otherwise known as the 'fight-or-flight' response.

This heightened state can lead to various physical symptoms, one of which is a loss of appetite. The body may suppress non-essential functions, such as digestion, in preparation for a perceived threat.

Consequently, individuals may not feel hungry or may struggle to eat even when they know they should.

On the other hand, anxiety can also lead to overeating. This usually happens when individuals use food as a coping mechanism to deal with their anxious feelings.

Overeating can provide temporary relief from anxiety but can lead to long-term health problems if it becomes a habitual way of dealing with stress.

The physical sensations associated with anxiety can also directly impact eating habits. Common symptoms include nausea, stomach discomfort, and a feeling of fullness in the throat, which can make the act of eating unpleasant or even distressing.

These symptoms can be particularly pronounced in people with specific anxiety disorders such as panic disorder or social anxiety disorder, where the fear of having a panic attack or being negatively judged can exacerbate these physical sensations.

Overall, the relationship between anxiety and eating habits is complex and can vary greatly from person to person. It's important to recognize these potential impacts of anxiety on eating and seek professional help if needed.

Specific Reasons Why Anxiety May Occur When Eating

Social Anxiety and Eating in Public: Social anxiety disorder manifests as intense fear in one or more social contexts, leading to substantial discomfort and a hindered ability to perform routine tasks in certain aspects of daily life.

This fear can extend to eating in public. People with social anxiety may worry excessively about being watched or judged while they eat, leading to heightened anxiety during meals.  

They might fear they'll eat messily, spill food, or appear unattractive while eating.

Fear of Choking or Allergic Reactions:  Some people may experience anxiety related to eating due to a fear of choking or having an allergic reaction.

This is especially common in individuals who have had a previous traumatic experience, such as choking on food or experiencing anaphylaxis.

The fear can be so intense that it interferes with the person's ability to eat normally, leading to anxiety whenever meal times approach.

Concerns About Body Image and Weight:  Our society places a great deal of emphasis on appearance, and this can lead to anxiety about body image and weight.

Individuals who are worried about their weight or body shape may experience anxiety when eating, particularly if the food is high in calories or considered "unhealthy".

This fear can lead to restrictive eating habits, overeating, or avoidance of certain foods or meals altogether.

Stress-Related Eating Habits:  Stress and anxiety often go hand in hand, and this can significantly impact eating habits.

Some people may turn to food for comfort when they're feeling stressed or anxious, leading to overeating. Others may lose their appetite entirely when they're under stress.

These altered eating habits can then contribute to further anxiety, creating a vicious cycle.

Each of these factors can contribute to the development of anxiety around eating. It's important to understand these triggers and seek help if your anxiety is affecting your ability to enjoy food or maintain a balanced diet.

Exploring the Concept of 'Comfort Food'

The term 'comfort food' often refers to foods that individuals turn to for relief or consolation when they're feeling stressed, anxious, or upset.

These foods, which are typically high in sugar, fat, or carbs, can temporarily alleviate anxiety symptoms. The reason behind this lies in our brain chemistry.

Consuming these foods can trigger the release of certain chemicals in the brain, such as dopamine and serotonin, which are known as 'feel-good' hormones. They can boost mood and provide a temporary sense of relief from negative emotions.

However, the psychological and physiological reasons behind comfort eating go beyond just the immediate release of feel-good hormones.

On a psychological level, comfort foods are often associated with positive memories or feelings, such as childhood memories or feelings of being cared for. These associations can provide a sense of comfort and security during times of stress or anxiety.

Physiologically, our bodies may crave high-energy foods during periods of stress as a survival mechanism. However, using food as a coping mechanism can have long-term effects.

While it may provide temporary relief, it doesn't address the root cause of the anxiety. Moreover, it can lead to unhealthy eating habits, weight gain, and associated health problems over time.

Therefore, while comfort foods can provide short-term relief, they are not a sustainable strategy for managing anxiety.

Strategies to Manage Anxiety Around Eating

Cognitive-Behavioral Techniques:  Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can be a highly effective strategy for managing anxiety around eating.

This approach helps individuals identify and challenge negative thought patterns that contribute to their anxiety, replacing them with healthier, more realistic beliefs.

For example, a person might learn to challenge fears of eating in public or concerns about body image.

Mindful Eating Practices:  Mindfulness involves bringing full attention to experiences in the present moment without judgment.

When applied to eating, it encourages individuals to focus on the sensory experiences of eating and to eat in response to physical hunger cues rather than emotional triggers.

This can help reduce anxiety around eating by promoting a healthier relationship with food.

Seeking Professional Help: If food-related anxiety is causing major discomfort or hindering your day-to-day activities, it might be helpful to reach out for professional guidance.

Therapists or psychologists can provide strategies and tools to manage anxiety, and in some cases, medication may be recommended.

Dietitians can also provide guidance on maintaining balanced and healthy eating habits.

Conclusion

Understanding and addressing anxiety around eating is crucial, as it can significantly impact a person's health, well-being, and quality of life.

It's important to recognize that these feelings are not a sign of weakness, but rather a common response to various stressors.

Various strategies, such as cognitive-behavioral techniques, mindful eating practices, and professional help, can be effective in managing this type of anxiety.

If you're struggling with anxiety around eating, remember that you're not alone and that help is available. Taking steps towards healthier habits can make a big difference, and seeking support from professionals or trusted individuals in your life can be a game-changer.

There's no need to face this challenge alone, and with the right tools and support, you can overcome anxiety around eating and enjoy a healthier relationship with food.

Author
Jennifer Luttman, LPC, ACS

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor, and owner of Overcomers Counseling. I'm dedicated to helping individuals find strength and healing through life’s challenges. With a deep understanding of mental health and years of professional experience, I specialize in fostering hope and resilience while equipping her clients with tools to thrive. Passionate about empowering others, she creates a safe, supportive space where everyone feels seen, valued, and capable of overcoming obstacles on their path to well-being.

Common Questions about Anxiety

What can I do to reduce my anxiety?

To reduce your anxiety, you can practice relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, guided imagery, and mindfulness practices. Additionally, regular exercise has been found to be beneficial in managing stress and improving mental health.

How long does anxiety counseling typically take?

The duration of anxiety counseling varies for each individual, depending on the severity of their anxiety and their progress in therapy. Our therapists will regularly assess your progress and adjust your treatment plan as needed.

How do I know if my therapist is a good fit for me?

It's important that you feel comfortable discussing personal matters with your therapist in order to open up and get more out of therapy sessions; therefore finding someone who meets certain criteria like experience level, expertise areas, and personality is key when selecting a therapist who can give meaningful feedback about how best handle issues related to anxiety or other mental health concerns.

Are there specific therapy services for anxiety and depression covered by Medicaid?

Yes, Medicaid provides insurance coverage for therapy services specifically designed to help individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, and other mental health conditions. Access to licensed therapists who specialize in these areas is available within the Medicaid network.

Will medication help with my anxiety?

Medication is often prescribed for anxiety due to the fact that it works quickly to ease symptoms of distress or panic attacks in some cases. However, this should always be discussed with your doctor so they can provide guidance on what's right for you and the type of medication best suited for your needs.

Why is it important to address anxiety?

Addressing anxiety is crucial because it can significantly impact your quality of life and overall well-being. Left untreated, anxiety can lead to more severe mental health issues, relationship problems, and difficulty functioning in daily life.